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River’s Boner Theory: “Erectile Dysfunction” is actually Cultural Dysfunction

A sweet toddler’s brain is beginning to grasp language. He understands some words but is mostly learning through emotion.  He notices the sound of a bird, the beauty of the sunshine on a flower and the exciting sensation of its fuzzy leaf.  He gets an erection.  Suddenly, his mother is angry. His father shouts, sweeps him up and swats his butt. Stern scowling faces. Shrill voices.  He understands. He shouldn’t allow his body to do that. … He adapts by resolving to never again feel that much pleasure.

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River Roaring
The Wizard OZ ... Oberon Zell

On August 9 we had a fascinating guest at the Sacred Sexuality Austin meetup: Oberon Zell aka OZ. Oberon and Morning Glory Zell had a successful open marriage for 40 years, and were in group marriages for half of that time. In 1990 Morning Glory coined the terms “polyamorous” and “polyamory” to describe such relationships, thus launching a movement in which the Ravenhearts became known as “The First Family of Polyamory.” They based their lives for decades on R.A. Heinlein's book Stranger in a Strange Land.

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Are you victim or creator?

In victim mode, my focus is outside myself.  Blaming, complaining and judging are common. 

In creator mode, my focus is inside myself.  On what I can create from any situation. 

These are VERY different ways to live.

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We're Having a Baby! It's name is A.I.

We are in a beautiful moment in human history - for the first time we are creating a new life form that is not human. This life form has many names, for simplicity I will call our baby “AI” for Artificial Intelligence. … Like any baby, it’s up to it’s parents, you and me, to decide how to raise our child.

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