A sweet toddler’s brain is beginning to grasp language. He understands some words but is mostly learning through emotion. He notices the sound of a bird, the beauty of the sunshine on a flower and the exciting sensation of its fuzzy leaf. He gets an erection. Suddenly, his mother is angry. His father shouts, sweeps him up and swats his butt. Stern scowling faces. Shrill voices. He understands. He shouldn’t allow his body to do that. … He adapts by resolving to never again feel that much pleasure.Read More
Uncage Love Blog
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On August 9 we had a fascinating guest at the Sacred Sexuality Austin meetup: Oberon Zell aka OZ. Oberon and Morning Glory Zell had a successful open marriage for 40 years, and were in group marriages for half of that time. In 1990 Morning Glory coined the terms “polyamorous” and “polyamory” to describe such relationships, thus launching a movement in which the Ravenhearts became known as “The First Family of Polyamory.” They based their lives for decades on R.A. Heinlein's book Stranger in a Strange Land.Read More
In victim mode, my focus is outside myself. Blaming, complaining and judging are common.
In creator mode, my focus is inside myself. On what I can create from any situation.
These are VERY different ways to live.Read More
Trump literally used AI to locate the most “paranoid” voters, feed them false information, make them feel they were not alone by creating fake people online, and activate them for his campaign. … So what does this mean? … How can we be less vulnerable to our machines?Read More
This post is loaded with goodies. The lowdown on sex and the internet at SXSW 2019. An update on internet censorship. How decriminalizing sex work could save the internet. And the launch of a new organization whose mission is to decriminalize prostitution nationwide.Read More
We are in a beautiful moment in human history - for the first time we are creating a new life form that is not human. This life form has many names, for simplicity I will call our baby “AI” for Artificial Intelligence. … Like any baby, it’s up to it’s parents, you and me, to decide how to raise our child.Read More
Erectile dysfunction. Premature ejaculation. Low desire. Predator. Caretaker. … Maybe we should change the phrase "sexual dysfunction" to "healthy response" to a pervasive outdated sexual practice.Read More
The problem is that patriarchy harms everyone. In this model of sex, the male is under pressure to "perform" to a goal, while the female's desire is unworthy of mention.Read More
You are invited to evolve beyond the limited and harmful concept of sexual intercourse. You are invited, instead, to Planet Pleasure. A place where all of your sexual expression is welcome and celebrated!Read More